Your Ultimate Guide to Engagement Photography (No Stress, Just Fun!)

So, you’re engaged—yay! Seriously, how exciting is this time in your life? There’s a lot of planning ahead, but let’s start with something that’s both fun and super meaningful: engagement photography. Now, you might be thinking, “Do we really need engagement photos?” I totally get it. But as someone who’s been behind the lens for countless couples (over 100 shoots and counting!), I can tell you that an engagement shoot is more than just a bunch of pretty pictures. It’s about capturing this incredible moment in your relationship and getting comfortable in front of the camera before the big day.

Let’s dive into everything you need to know about engagement photography—the why, the where, and how to make it the most fun part of your wedding planning!

Why Engagement Photos Matter (It’s Not Just for Save-the-Dates!)

You’ve probably seen engagement photos all over social media and wondered, “Is it really necessary?” Here’s the thing: an engagement session is like a mini celebration of you two. It’s a chance to show off your personality, tell your story, and get some stunning shots of you being all cute and in love.

Plus, think of it as a trial run for your wedding photos. Getting comfy in front of the camera now means less awkwardness later. And those photos? They’re not just for save-the-dates (though they’re great for that). You can use them for wedding websites, decor, or even just to capture this beautiful moment in time before the chaos of wedding planning sets in.

Curious why an engagement session is a must? Check out my latest article to discover 10 reasons why you should decide on an engagement photoshoot. Trust me, you don’t want to miss these tips!

Step-by-Step Guide to Planning Your Engagement Shoot

Let’s break this down into a few simple steps to make sure you’re fully prepped for the shoot:

1. Choose Your Photographer: It’s All About the Vibes

Finding the right photographer is key. Your photos should reflect who you are, so you want someone who gets your vibe. Here’s how to go about it:

• Do Your Research: Look through portfolios online and on social media. What styles are you drawn to? Bright and airy? Moody and romantic? Find a photographer whose work makes you think, “Yes, that’s us!”
• Meet Up: Arrange a meeting or call with potential photographers. You want to feel comfortable around them, as it will show in your photos. If you click with them, they’re the right choice!
• Ask Questions: Don’t be afraid to ask about their experience, their approach to engagement shoots, and even specific concerns you have. You can also check out more tips on choosing a photographer here.

2. Pick a Location That Tells Your Story

Choosing the perfect spot for your shoot sets the tone for your photos. Here are some things to consider:

• Sentimental Spots: Where did you two first meet? Is there a park where you walk your dog every Sunday? Using a location that has special meaning to you both adds a personal touch.
• Natural Beauty: Beaches, forests, gardens, or mountains make for stunning backdrops. And don’t forget the magical “golden hour” (shortly after sunrise or just before sunset) for that dreamy glow.
• Urban Adventures: City streets, rooftops, coffee shops, or even graffiti-covered alleyways can add a modern, vibrant twist to your photos.

Pro Tip: Always have a backup plan! If you’re planning an outdoor shoot, check the weather forecast and choose a backup indoor location just in case Mother Nature has other ideas.

3. Timing Is Everything

The best time for an engagement shoot is during the “golden hour.” This is the hour just after sunrise or before sunset when the lighting is soft and warm, creating a beautiful, natural glow. If you’re early birds, a sunrise shoot can give you an intimate, quiet atmosphere. If not, an evening sunset shoot is just as magical.

Want to know when the sun sets? Check here!

4. Plan Your Outfits: Coordinate, Don’t Match (And, Be Comfy!)

Choosing what to wear can be tricky, but it doesn’t have to be stressful. Here’s a simple guide:

• Coordinate, Don’t Match: Pick colors that complement each other without being too matchy-matchy. Think soft neutrals, pastels, or jewel tones.
• Dress for the Location: If you’re shooting in a garden, flowy dresses and earth tones work well. For an urban shoot, opt for something sleek and stylish.
• Layer It Up: Layers like jackets or scarves can add depth to your photos and give you options to change up your look during the shoot.
• Comfort is Key: Wear something you feel great in. If you’re uncomfortable, it’ll show in the photos.
• Accessorize: Hats, jewelry, or scarves can add a pop of personality to your outfits. Just keep it balanced—don’t let the accessories steal the show!

Need Inspiration? Check out this photo gallery for some example outfits and poses to get you started!

5. Prep for the Shoot: What to Bring

Here’s a quick checklist of things to prepare before the big day:

• Props: Bring meaningful props like coffee mugs, blankets, or even your pet! I had a couple bring their adorable pup once, and those photos turned out to be some of their favorites.
• Beauty Prep: Hair, makeup, nails—you don’t have to go all out, but a little pampering can boost your confidence.
• Comfort Kit: Pack a small bag with essentials—lip balm, tissues, hairbrush, and maybe some water and snacks (shoots can take a couple of hours).

How to Prep for Your Session (No Need to Stress!)

So, how do you get ready for an engagement session? Don’t worry, it’s easier than you think!

• Get a Little Pampered: If you’re planning on getting a haircut or your nails done, do it! Feeling fresh and put together can boost your confidence in front of the camera.
• Bring a Few Props: Do you love coffee? Bring some cute mugs for a cozy coffee shop vibe! Have a dog? Bring them along! Including little props that are meaningful to you adds a personal touch to your session.
• Relax and Have Fun: The best photos happen when you’re relaxed and just having a good time. Don’t worry about nailing every pose or how you look. Your photographer will guide you, and the natural moments – laughter, cuddles, kisses – are where the magic is.

During the Shoot: Just Be Yourselves!

The day of your shoot is all about you two. Here’s how to keep things fun and laid-back:

• Keep Moving: Stiff poses? Nope! Walk hand-in-hand, twirl, dance, even jump around a little. Movement makes photos feel natural and captures your playful energy as a couple.
• Interact: Pretend the camera isn’t there. Hold hands, laugh, whisper something funny (or sweet) in each other’s ear. The more you interact, the more your personalities will shine through in the photos.
• Embrace the Moment: Remember, there’s no “perfect pose” you have to nail. Just be present, enjoy the experience, and trust that your photographer is capturing all those beautiful, candid moments.

After the Shoot: How to Use Those Gorgeous Photos

Once your photos are ready (most photographers will have them edited and delivered within a few weeks), it’s time to put them to use!

• Save-the-Dates: These photos are perfect for your wedding announcements.
• Wedding Website: Share your story and set the tone for your wedding day with these images.
• Home Decor: Frame your favorites or create an album as a keepsake.

Pro Tip: When selecting images for print, choose a mix of close-ups, full-body shots, and candid moments for a well-rounded collection. Need help deciding? I offer personalized guidance to pick the best shots that capture your story!

FAQs: Answering Your Biggest Engagement Photo Questions

Q: How do we feel more comfortable in front of the camera?
A: It’s all about focusing on each other rather than the camera. Treat the shoot like a fun date—laugh, talk, and move around. A good photographer (like me!) will guide you through poses to help you relax.

Q: Can we include our pets in the photos?
A: Absolutely! Pets are part of the family, so bring them along. Just make sure you have a friend or family member there to help out with your furry friend when needed.

Q: What if it rains on the day of our shoot?
A: No worries! We can always pivot to an indoor location or reschedule if necessary. Rain can also make for some beautifully romantic photos if you’re up for it!

Final Thoughts (And a Little Personal Advice)

Honestly, engagement sessions are some of my favorites to shoot. It’s not just about getting beautiful photos; it’s about capturing your story, the laughter, the inside jokes, the look in each other’s eyes. This session is for you two—a moment to celebrate your love and have fun in front of the camera.

Thinking about booking an engagement session? If you’re curious about how I work or need more tips to prepare, just reach out! I’m here to help make this experience as fun and stress-free as possible. Let’s capture your love story, one frame at a time!

Want to know what a session with me looks like? Click here to watch a short film of my latest project 🙂